I am Ajay Right now i am just 25 year old male. I am leaving with one eye and using prosthetic eye in my right eye i need some answare after reading my life history

(1) I want to marry with one eye women. should I marry with one eye women?

My life History

During my childhood when i was around 3 years old my mother was sewing some cloths with a needle. Unfortunately my mother happens to be sitting so close to me that she accidentally injured my eye unknowingly. As she was not aware of my sitting to close, this was the most tragit incident that left me and my right eye to much badly injured leaving my right cornea totally damaged that i had to live a life of same and dishonor. The community where i used to live in was a community of rural and uncivilized people who frequently tortured me by telling me hurting words about my disability. The time of sadness and depression was to long for me telling from spanning from my childhood to my youth. Being a son of a forest guard i was so poor that i could not even afford a artificial eye. This took me almost 6 years of handwork to bye artificial eye and me. I hope that this much of chapter as regards my life would help u to understand me more closely. I think the words even are proved to be light and useless to explain that trauma of my life and my sufferings.

My ID:

blind_oneeye@yahoo.co.inWith Regards
Ajay

Ajay I don't understand why there's even be a question of Love and marraige here, Just because you have a prosthesis shouldnt matter if your truly in Love it shouldnt matter,like the old saying goes "Love Is Blind" I have been Blind in my right eye as well since I was a small child due to degenitive eye desease, I'm happly married going on 29 years in April, I recently had my Enucleation almost a month ago in my right eye due to pain and reoccuring eye infections. We have 3 grown children Its never been a "Does He Love Me Issue" You say you grew up poor, well if you still are, then your lady must truely Love you to have stayed with you. My youngest Son is always saying this, and I think it's meant for you as well " Always be yourself. Because the people that matter don't mind. And the ones that mind don't matter " I wish you the best in in whatever way you chose to go,just make it count. P.S. Welcome to the forum

Hi Ajay,
Welcome!! As you will see on this board, people here do the usuall things such as work, school, hobbies, and marriage. In my case I don't give myself a chance. You are a young person with a life ahead of you. Keep reading and posting.
Jeff

Pick yourself up bro I live in a community in Canada filled with our people East Indian, father from India I understand what your saying the problem is our people care to much of what other people think. The hell with what other people say stay true to your family and yourself the rest can go to hell. Stay around positive people anyone that says other wise then like i said tell them to go to hell. If you want a arranged marriage make your mother realize 1 it's not her fault 2 you are not disabled 3 you deserve to be completely happy. Marry a girl that is best for you, picks you up when your down. Don't take that s*** bro

Peace

Hi Ajay
Welcome to the most supportive forum on the internet . Your story is very interesting. I am wondering about your culture as to arranged marriages or if you can choose yourself? I guess you are (if your culture/family allows it) free to choose a wife with one eye (I am not sure if there are many around?) if you want to.
It is sad that you have had to grow up with ridicule as this can certainly damage the self esteem.
We support you Ajay so stand tall and remember the folks on this forum.
Cheers
Barry

Dear Ajay,
I hope you find and marry someone that makes all that unhappiness a memory. I have faith that you will. - Amy

Ajay,
Welcome to the forum. I don't know a lot about your culture, but I hope you meed someone that will make you very happy, which I'm sure you will. Let people think what they want - what really matters is that you stay positive. You will get through his and don't let people drag you down, your as good as anyone else. Yes, you have a artificial eye, but it DOESN'T make you useless! You can do the same as everyone else.

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HI ajay

I'm new to this site as well ,I wrote my introduction in "another newbie " ,I'm from germany so apologize my writing .
First of all I assure you will find someone who loves you as you are.I'm 19 and lost my eye with 9 years ( i really dont remember very well) and still havnt found a girlfriend.But hey we're still young .And dont forget you are something special and unique .Of course what happened in your childhood is traumatic and i think these thoughts will obsess you throughout your whole life .
In contrast to you my experiences with one eye are no comparisons but I have been razzed in school too.So I know or better said we all here know how you feel.But you will find someone thats merely a matter of time .Dont lose hope life may appear very very unfair especially for us but I think if anythings true about what were said long ago by the old greeks who believed in powerful mighty gods, then there will come someday
a phase of life we will achieve what we ever dreamed of.So keep a stiff upper lip , and dont forget we will stay with you all the time.And let the others say what they want .Your the one you knows what lifes worth .And that which doesnt kill ya only makes you stonger.

I want the same thing my friend. In today's world a woman who understands my needs would be best. I have too much to deal with as far as the eye goes to be able to have a normal relationship with someone who isn't very sympathetic to my cause from the beginning.

Problem is...where do I find these women???!!!