I have this question that one eye person marry with another one eye person. I want to know who did marry with one eye person i mean both one eye and enjoying life....I have also dream to marry with one eye girl....................I think that if both have same problems then they can understand whatever they want and make a happy life..............and in any condition they will not decive eachother...........So please replly the right answere...............




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Ajay

Ajay, of course two people who both happen to only have one eye can marry - whats to stop them?

But also - why does marriage need to be restricted to someone with the same condition?
A Diabetic person wouldn't be be seeking only another diabetic to date and marry, nor would an amputee restrict their dating to someone with the loss of a limb....
So I find your question a bit strange

I think you need to realise that yes, having one eye can be classed by some as a disability, but for most of us, it is our ability, i.e we only have the ability to see though one of our eyes.



It isnt necessary to have "the same problems" to have an understanding and trustworthy relationship, those principles arise out of love for one another.

Ajay....all that matters is LOVE....you need to have love, not disability as the main sorce for marriage. I've been married to a great guy who wears glasses has diabetes, deteriated disk, and a few other physical problems but I didnt look for the disibility it came with the package so to say. We've been happy for almost 30 years. I know a couple who got married as the man was hearing and the wife was deaf, but he didn't LOOK for a deaf woman it just happen to be who "SHE IS" It shouldn't matter. Read my quote ......It just doesnt matter....the marrage Vows even says for better or worse, richer or poorer....doesn't say. till Disability do us part! True Love comes when your not looking or even expecting it sometimes, Take down your guard Ajay, stop lableing yourself as disabled, start living life. I understand where your from SOME PEOPLE don't except losing an eye or any form or flaw in ones body, Thats their loss people need to get over it and get on with living and stop freting what others think! And FYI I am labled legally blind 20 / 200 in the living eye and other eye has been Enucleated. That hasnt stopped me from being who I am, I don't allow people to treat me differnt and I'm doing just fine..

i think its all fine an dandy for some of us to think that "as long as there's love...". but i know that we are dealing with some cultural differences here.

You know what they say about Marriage ....First time for Love, 2nd Time for money LOL


Seriously tho, your eye has no bearing on who U can marry....

Your eye will definitely not stop you from marrying!!!

I know culture differences has a big part to play, but lets face it if you love someone (I'm no expert) then nothing should stop you from being together regardless of colour, disability, culture or whatever.

You got to give yourself some credit, your a fine looking young man. Your prosthesis shouldn't be a problem. That person will love you for who you are!

I told you bro I understand our culture very well, I'm active in the community. Your eye situation should not be considered a disability, and the hell with what our culture tells us. Like I said before find the best person for you, physically and mentally.

Peace

Sometimes I think it would be cool to meet someone with vision in one eye as well too. The two of you would totally understand each others vision problem and that would be level that the two of you would "connect", as well as lots of other things hopefully. Cool yes, but I dont limit my interest in the opposite sex to those only with vision in one eye (that would be hard to find someone too). I have had a couple of relationships with girls since I lost vision in my right eye and those relationships, with normal vision girls, were in no way affected by our vision differnces. Its like what your mom told you when you were young "It's what inside that counts".

-I could go on and on, Ive though alot about this subject and have come to the conclusion that my vision definately in no way affects my love life or interactions with the other sex (hey it might make them more interesting)

-Your heart doesnt have any eyes, neither does theirs

Don't worry Ajay, love will find you when it's the right time in your life and having a blind eye (or no eye) will not change how someone truly feels about you if It's true love. No one in life is perfect and we must accept ourselves and others with faults and the disability limitations we all have or the world would be a very lonely and selfish place.

When I was blind I was in a really bad relationship and was afraid to end it because I was worried that no one else would be interested in getting to know me or willing to stick around because of my health issues but then I met this wonderful man (who is now my husband) we went on our first date (after talking on the phone for a month) and I told him about my eye problems and he didn't even blink an eye......couldn't care less about what was wrong with me because he fell in love with my smile and my personality as well as my honesty and how upfront I was about my life. I figured I would tell him early on in the relationship so that he could run if he wanted to without me getting too attached and instead of running he was blown away by my honesty which was something that he found rare in relationships he'd had.

Try hard Ajay not to dwell on your disability by being positive and thanking God for the gift of giving us 2 eyes otherwise we would be in big trouble! If you stay positive in life and feel good about yourself you will draw that same positive energy from others and then be open to love with someone who's attracted to your personality and who you really are inside. Besides, you look like a really handsome guy and I think your paying too much attention to your loss rather then how blessed you are to be alive and still be able to see the world.

There are many more disabilities that I can think of that are much more heartbreaking them losing an eye and we should all think that way when we feel down on ourselves. I know we all have our hard days but honestly, having no vision at all is my greatest fear so I thank God for the gift of 2 eyes otherwise we would really have something to dwell on.

stay positive Ajay, a positive attitude reflects positive people in your direction. Love with find you when you least expect it.

Cher

I have been blind in one eye all my live.IN 1988 i had the bad eye removed and got a fake one.I never thought anything of being a one eye person.I'm married now but before i would look at other parts of a womman (if you know what i mean)and not wheather she can see out of one eye or two!!Your not handcaped so don't look for one in yourself or others.BE A MAN!!

hahah
shazaam.

Before you were married .... nice one .

I went in a shop one time and all the women staff were wearing these distinctive pink t-shirts. I asked one of them what they were for and she said
"Its Breast Awareness Day".
I replied "For me, everyday is breast awareness day"

I can't imagine being limited to only monocular people...although it may be nice to meet someone that understands. I've had a few boyfriends, and they all have patched their eyes at some point in the relationship in order to see what I'm going through. I jokingly have them do it occasionally when we play pool or golf or softball or anything where depth perception or peripheral may be involved. I'm very competitive, so I don't like anyone to have an advantage over me It makes things much more interesting! It really doesn't affect my life that much. People are people, and I've never had anyone look the other direction just because I have a prosthetic eye. Love isn't only about physical appearances or disabilities.

Breast Awareness Day I love it!!!I may have only eye & married but i can still look!! & if i look to long(hard) i just bang my head agaist the well a few times!! That always helps!!

Yes

we've never run into eachother on our blind sides, have we, nick?

i think though if that were something that happened often it might become a problem. other than that i believe it is possible

dude, thats a kick-butt answer to the OP (aka Original Poster, for those new to the interweb)

eew - everyday is breast awareness day

I think I understand what Ajay is saying - I suppose dating/marrying another one-eyer would eliminate the explanations etc. I just think it would be pretty darn limiting to restrict dating to only others who are monocular. I live in a small town so I'd be dating a 6 year old or my former elementary school principal - gross!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!