• View topic - so afraid!!!!!!!!!!!!!! .-(

clari2 · Tue Jul 03, 2012 1:23 am

i feel so stupid saying this P (

but im learning how to live whit only one eye but i cant stopt thinking and be worried about my good eye ......is it frecuently???????? sorry for my stupid question kisses!!!!!!!!!!

JANELLE · Wed Jul 04, 2012 6:35 am

Welcome to lost eye,
you are normal! Many of us have the same worry. I found it gets better as time goes by and you return to your life. Getting used to having only one eye causes anxiety and makes you tired.

Please do not think you are stupid. You are very normal.
Janelle

Moby · Wed Jul 04, 2012 5:42 pm

Try and stay in the present, don't go with "What ifs". Concentrate on what blessings you have in your life...your health and you can see the whole world with that eye. Look at all the lovely colours around you and feel how blessed you truly are.
We all go there at sometime.
Share your feelings with us anytime.

dahoopit · Wed Jul 04, 2012 8:59 pm

Dont be afraid....just keep it protected. Thinking about the possibilities could be OK ...just try not to let it rule your life.
Hang in there!

clari2 · Sat Jul 07, 2012 12:27 am

JANELLE wrote:

Welcome to lost eye,
you are normal! Many of us have the same worry. I found it gets better as time goes by and you return to your life. Getting used to having only one eye causes anxiety and makes you tired.

Please do not think you are stupid. You are very normal.
Janelle

thanks janelle for saying me im normal cause i feel im not a normal person now :cry:

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clari2 · Sat Jul 07, 2012 12:33 am

Moby wrote:

Try and stay in the present, don't go with "What ifs". Concentrate on what blessings you have in your life...your health and you can see the whole world with that eye. Look at all the lovely colours around you and feel how blessed you truly are.
We all go there at sometime.
Share your feelings with us anytime.

thank you my dear friend i try doing it but its very hard acepting this situation i will try to concentrate in blessings in my life but its dificult when everybody avoid me P (

clari2 · Sat Jul 07, 2012 12:37 am

dahoopit wrote:

Dont be afraid....just keep it protected. Thinking about the possibilities could be OK ...just try not to let it rule your life.
Hang in there!

thanks dahoopit............i use glasses but i feel afraid to use the computer to study i think my good eye will be tired and it kill me!!!!!!!!!! :confp:

sally tolhurst · Sun Jul 08, 2012 6:20 am

Hi Clari2, welcome to LE. A very helpful and supportive bunch of
people from all over the world, happy to help and share stories.
You are completely normal with you feelings, we have all had those thoughts
at various stages - but as time passes they will become less and less.
You are totally in charge of your thoughts - so look at this beautiful
world every day and enjoy.!! good wishes sally

ward · Sun Jul 08, 2012 1:26 pm

Hello Clari 2,
I agree with everbody else try to look at all the positive things, try to enjoy things and keep going upwards and have the best day you can. I am glad you are protecting your good eye and don't worry about the computer or reading for your good eye. Just have regular breaks and rest if you feel tired.
I am sorry you say people try to avoid you but I am sure if you relax and try not to worry you'll find good friends to support you.
Let us know you are keeping .

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