Honestly,
Do that many people really notice something like that? I would think your pupils would be a similar size in about 80% of situations and for the rest of the situations I would think that it would either be too dark or bright to really notice.
Anyway, I've often pondered this myself so your question isn't off the wall or stupid and has probably crossed the minds of lots of people. A reactive pupil would certainly go a long way in making the prosthesis more life like. I am sure the technology is there already to do somehting like this but may be too costly too research. The biggest obstacle would be finding space for the electronics (if that is how it is done) and powering it (

although a solar cell might work well). Not to mention the entire process of creating a prosthesis would most likely change - not a comforting thought to many occularists who have exacted their skill and make a living with it.
I think the main reason advances like this haven't been made is that occularists are more art than they are science. I often wonder how science will advance and if someday we will have realistic bionic eyes that do everything but see (maybe even see) or whether a biological approach is taken and they are able to clone eyes and re-plant them in place of the missing eye. Stem cells are the first step in the latter example and more money would help out in the prior (as I believe the technology is there to make a more life like prosthesis).